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I Fell Into The Abyss

I Fell Into The Abyss

The title of this section of the process, The Abyss, is appropriate! It actually took me two weeks to do all of the assignments.

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Uncover Your Secrets + Upgrade Your Life

Uncover Your Secrets + Upgrade Your Life

A big part of the work this week is all about what they call “securing the inner fortress” and learning more about yourself and the pieces you’ve suppressed and taking a good look at it. To express yourself, you’ve got to know yourself.

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How to Give Yourself a Time-Out

How to Give Yourself a Time-Out

Giving myself a weekly ‘time-out’ or an ‘Artist’s Date’ is a fun way to keep from burning out.

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LONG BEFORE I WAS A VA, I WAS AN ESTHETICIAN. And LONG BEFORE I WAS A VA, I WAS AN ESTHETICIAN. And I thought it would be my "forever" career. Except for one tragic flaw. I could not do a Brazilian wax to save my life.😱 

This was 2005/2006 so that was a big deal.

If I could go back to that time, I’d have a few things to tell my young self that are probably important for any service provider. Things that might have helped prevent me from burning out, getting frustrated (and honestly scared I might get sued), and ultimately giving up completely. 

GO INTO BUSINESS FOR YOURSELF NOW
As an esthetician, I’d planned to start my own business all along. But I told myself I needed to work in a spa or salon first, observe, and then I could do my own thing in, like, 5 years.

That was just not true.

Other estheticians skipped the traditional spa and salon jobs and went directly into working for themselves, renting out cute rooms in local buildings or even setting up mobile practices. They were able to offer exactly what they wanted to offer and decide on their own pricing.

** I am NOT saying “jump and the net will appear/quit your dayjob now without a plan” because I think that is terrible advice. I’m saying if you know, like I did, that you want to work for yourself eventually, you have what you need to get started and you don’t need to “learn the ropes” for years on end.**

DO THINGS YOU SUCK AT – BUT ONLY UP TO A POINT
Since I did not enjoy providing Brazilians, I sucked at them, and since I sucked at them, I did not enjoy providing them. I had no business providing such a personal service that I sucked at. Leave it for the estheticians who are great at them!

It is important to let yourself be bad at things and be a beginner, but at a certain point, if you're not into what you're trying to get good at anyway, I don't think it is going to work. 

DON’T DO THINGS YOU HATE
Even if that service is in high demand. This might seem like a “no duh” to you, but it really wasn’t to me in the beginning. 

Trends come and go but if you’re seeking ways to be of service in ways that feel good to you, you’ll find your people.

Those 3 lessons I think made me a better #virtualassistant.
Last week I made myself a big batch of very beige Last week I made myself a big batch of very beige soup. It tasted okay but made me sad to look at! It got me thinking again about this #joyfulbook by @aestheticsofjoy I read a couple of years ago... Vibrancy is a nutrient!

PS I should give Alex his props because he always plates our meals beautifully. I just want to step it up when I prep my own meals. 💗
Toasting to the new year! Hope you are staying saf Toasting to the new year! Hope you are staying safe and cozy. We made it to the end of this crazy year!
Happy Monday and Election week! Been waiting 4 yea Happy Monday and Election week! Been waiting 4 years for this one.

I picked up this beautiful and well-organized #VisionaryJournal planner created by @starchasersonly a while back... but I just haven't been able to plan. But I don't know... I'm feeling optimistic? I may be ready to make some plans again. 

Also, I hope you all voted already or are going to tomorrow! I voted early on the first day I could.
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